<h1 style="text-align: center;">Strategies for Breaking it Off with a Nice Girl Without Causing Heartbreak</h1>
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<h1>Strategies for Breaking it Off with a Nice Girl Without Causing Heartbreak</h1>
<p>On my last post I requested what you, my readers used as their strategies in order to break it off with a nice sweet, and innocent girl. The caveat being that you don’t really want to hurt her, so you want it to go as smoothly as possible, with out any ancillary heart break on her end – also I’m assuming that you cold hearted bastards wouldn’t be heart broken – but am I wrong? Only somewhat. The original twitter conversation had <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/">Loveawake</a> stating that he still doesn’t enjoy it when he has to break it off with a sweet nice girl, I gave the standard reply the manosphere would give in order for him to be okay with her being hurt – somehow this got diluted into thinking that I was telling him ways to make him enjoy hurting a nice girl, which is not the case. You have to be pretty sociopathic to not care about anything that much. No, my point was that you can break up with a girl with out feeling bad, or guilty, which is essentially what we’re dealing with when someone says I don’t enjoy it. I don’t think anyone expects anyone to enjoy breaking up with someone – even girls don’t enjoy, even the cold ones – they usually feel bad for breaking a man’s heart – it’s not something they can usually stomach – it’s a good thing they have hard working and energetic hamsters to spin so they don’t have to deal with the guilt. We as men have less virile rodents in our wheels. <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/07/break-up-and-move-on/" rel="dofollow">Coping with breakups and moving on</a> is a crucial skill worth learning.</p>
<h2>Choosing the Right Strategy</h2>
<p>There was some good strategies laid forth by the faithful readers here, I will not be here to rank their effectiveness, as with all things in dating game, each strategy is suited for the individual, you can be presented with strategies and pick what you think will work best for you, but no one thing will work without your personality jiving with it. Game like all con’s has to have your complete buy in for it to work – the same with the break up or kiss off. You must have complete buy in – or there will be heart ache, and drama. For example, my favorite comment brought to you by Ashur: Ashur Says: Typically, I fake my own death. This triggers the man-replacement algorithm in the female. They really don’t mind losing a man, as long as it not to another woman. All joking aside, this is the essence of what you want to do in order to let the girl down easy, to ease your guilt – oh I don’t mean actually going through all the trouble to fake your death, as glorious as that sounds – secretly I’ve always wanted to do it – just keep going from different city to different city, racking up notches like a true ghost, my name but just a whisper in the wind. But I digress, the man-replacement algorithm is the key to save precious little heart. <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/03/13/how-to-get-over-a-brutal-breakup-in-10-steps/" rel="dofollow">Getting over brutal breakups in steps</a> can help manage the healing process.</p>
<h2>Understanding Emotional Dynamics</h2>
<p>Once a girl has negated you as a prospect or an interest, there is no feelings for you – I’m sure many of you are aware of how a once loving woman can turn on a hair, and seem like a robot with it’s mind wiped of all previous bonds and events with the two of you, and cause you to feel less than worth-less. I still find it strange why any man would actually feel bad about hurting a girls feelings when they know those feelings are only fleeting and because of how you make her feel in this moment – <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain-dating-service.html?gender=female">being in a relationship with a girl</a> is ensuring that you are constantly on the positive and sexually piquing side of her feelings – fall too far into sappy betaville and you slip right out of her consciousness completely. Anyone that’s loved and lost a girl knows this to be true.</p>
<h2>Human Empathy and Gender Differences</h2>
<p>Unfortunately, most of us do feel something when we’re about to break it off, or are breaking it off with a girl, and I would probably be worried if you didn’t. However this isn’t actually caring about her. Not one bit. Human’s have this amazing feeling called empathy – <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain/city-of-Madrid.html?gender=female">single girls</a> are full of it and feel it all the time – it’s why they cry at sappy commercials and anything that shows any sentimentality. When you are feeling bad about breaking up with a girl, you are not caring about her, you just feel guilty – this is your conscious, and it’s a good thing to follow it, because what it does is projects your own feelings on to someone else, and helps prevent you from being too harsh, mean, and harming others. It’s what civilized people do. There is one caveat here though, when dealing with women. And that is – a man’s pain and a women’s pain are two totally different things when it comes to love.</p>
<h2>Breaking Up Without Guilt</h2>
<p>A man, even if he thinks his wife’s a cunt and a stupid bitch, if they break up, he’ll still remember and focus on any good times they had – he’ll still be crushed completely and sometimes never get back into the dating pool – often times this does not lead him to <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com">dating blog</a>, and he slips away into nothingness. A woman, can be distraught, suicidal, sick, go into mental institutions, etc… however… and this is a BIG however, only if she still cares. She will only be hurt if she tingles for you. If she doesn’t, then you don’t ever have to worry about breaking up with her, you do not ever have to feel bad for it – because she doesn’t give a shit. Men project their own feelings on women, we do it all the time, and this blinds us in when we interact with women – our brain still relies on what we know, and what we know is us, men, how we think, feel, emote. Even players. In fact game exists primarily because of this one and only reason – you have to remind yourself not to think like a man, and do and act what a girls likes, finds attractive – understanding that, allows you to pluck all the right strings in order to make her sing. When we forget this, even experienced men, is because we forget that they are different than us – and that your guilt and empathy aren’t actually necessary. Well, unless your lazy.</p>
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